SEX AND MARRIAGE WHEN DOES IT GET STALE

 
 AUTHOR:  RYAN PAUL

AUTHOR:

RYAN PAUL

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As young men growing up  we all had a mindset that when the time come that we actually get married it will be filled with mind blowing sex day in and day out, having the intention of leaking your milk out over and over repeated being so drained out that we wouldn’t even be able to walk. The thought alone of having your wife in all sorts of death defining positions, drilling into her guts hoping to touch her kidney, that alone is enough to make a man say I do (yes i’ll marry her).

    But for some reason that feeling of desire tends to die, if not die somehow gets weaken because the challenges and reality of life tends to take precidence in your everyday scenario, there’er bills to pay, kids to take care of and places that you must be that drains your energy on a day to day basis “YES I’M TALKING ABOUT WORK”. As much as we all would love to maintain that urge to have sex that we had as a teen growing up in some cases its just not that simple.

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The thought alone of having your wife in all sorts of death defining positions, drilling into her guts hoping to touch her kidney, that alone is enough to make a man say I do (yes i’ll marry her).

In my early teen I myself use to often day dream about when I get married and the amount of sex I would be having day in and day out, going balls deep into my wife religiously trying to touch something deep inside her wether it’s her heart / liver / kidney or whatever I can touch with my dick, I would be ramming that shit in as far as it can go making her scream out in agony from my dick punches. {“Yeah i know you like that line, I just came up with that one”}

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going balls deep into my wife religiously trying to touch something deep inside her wether it’s her heart / liver / kidney or whatever I can touch with my dick, I would be ramming that shit in as far as it can go making her scream out in agony from my dick punches.

But now as a married man and doing it a couple times it’s not on the forefront of my mind anymore, maybe because my connection to her has grown to a level that I can’t bare to see her in pain whether it’s a sweet pain or bad or maybe I just need to forget about everything else and just focus on sex to bring back that pussy killer instinct. 

But what could the problem be? 

Why do some people have less sex when they get married?

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I just need to forget about everything else and just focus on sex to bring back that pussy killer instinct. 

I think it’s a two way stream coming from opposite directions and clashing, instead of flowing it clashes together and digs a hole, don’t understand what I mean let me explain. If you’re an outgoing person when it comes to sex and usually take what you want all the time in other words being the one to initiate sex at some point you’re going to get tired of being the aggressor and would want your partner to sometimes make you feel wanted by physically taking the lead and ripping off your clothes and show you that they too can get all naughty with you. That type of aggression for sex is often very sexy and can very well get the blood pumping.

But if your partner is very laid back and always shy and very rarely making that attempt to be the aggressor in sex you tend to feel not as wanted sexually and without you even realizing it the urge to have sex begins to be less prominent in your mind and guess what! The sex will actually gets less and less.

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Theres always another guy waiting inline or lurking in the bushes to pick up your slack.

It’s not always easy to just change your style and be different but its often worth trying something different and taking yourself out of your comfort zone because you’ll never know what surprises might be waiting on you. Theres an old saying, if you do the same thing the same way then you will always get the same result.Thats why I think that we need to shake things up a bit, ladies don’t be afraid to attack you man when you want sex because he’s not a mind reader, he won’t know your hunger for his dick so you will  have to make that first move. And fellas don’t be all high and mighty about yourself and think that just because you put it down when the time comes that you don’t have to make the effort to satisfy her when she wants it, because guess what! Theres always another guy waiting inline or lurking in the bushes to pick up your slack.